What I have discovered with friends who having troubled times that silence is the by far the best way to let them vent. Not questions, or relating it to your own experiences, but silence. It just works. Sort of figured this out a while ago, but it is just interesting. Sort of ties into the good advice Claire gave me freshman year:
When girls talk about a problem, a guy wants to try to fix the problem somehow. What guys don’t realize is that girls aren’t always looking for a solution from the guy. She just wants to talk about the problem.
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